The Top Dating Coach of 2006... make your opinion count in my poll below. Polling closes midnight the 6th of January. (Please post a comment on why you voted for your particular dating coach, it may help others find more success as you've had!)
Riding off Thundercat's Top Pickup Artists of 2006, I thought that there is more to dating than picking up girls from boyfriends and taking them to bathrooms, so I thought the concept of an overall Dating Coach would be awesome. These are the best instructors based on performance, innovation, and content of advice. Remember, not the most popular perhaps, but the person of the year who has given the most relevant and useful advice for the improvement of YOU (that you've found to work), not particularly the whole community.
Let's see who wins!
Donovan
Sunday, December 31, 2006
Saturday, December 30, 2006
New Year's Eve Pickup Guide
Lance Mason's guide for New Years:
Let's face... no guy wants to be alone on New Year's Eve.
There's nothing worse than standing alone by yourself at Midnight while everyone else around you is kissing, and if you've been studying PickUp 101 Material, it should NEVER happen to you.
And I've got a little known secret to tell you... New Year's Eve is one of the best
nights of the year to hook up.
This is the ONE NIGHT that it's finally 'okay' for women to act out on their romantic and sexual desires. So don't let that special someone (or those special people!) down this holiday season.
I put together this Guide to Hooking Up New Year's Even to help you as you head out to one of the biggest celebrations of the year.
And remember the single most important thing is to have FUN!
Tip #1: Have transportation home planned.
Don't underestimate the power of a designated driver and one empty seat on New Years Eve. I don't know how it is in your town, but in San Francisco getting a cab on New Years from 2 to 3 a.m. is next to impossible.
Having a ride planned out gives her an easy excuse to ditch her friends and catch a ride with you!
Tip #2: Pick a large venue and stay there.
It's better to go to one big party the whole night then to go to several small parties over the course of the night. As the night progresses, things tend to favor those who have been the most social all night.
Women you flirted with earlier will come back to talk to you. Even the people you haven't talked to will start to recognize you as one of the more social people in the room.
This helps tremendously, and is all lost if you jump from party to party.
Tip #3: Have a goal in mind.
Are you looking to set up a bunch of dates for the New Year, to get a girlfriend, or to just have fun and hook-up for the night? It's worth mentioning that if you don't know what you are looking for you won't know when you have found it.
Tip #4: Countdowns are for wimps.
If you have a girl attracted to you and have been talking to her a while DON'T wait till midnight to get the kiss. If she likes you then practically any line works here. You can look at your watch and say, "Damn, it's only 10:30!".
Then pause and say, "I'm not waiting" and go in for the kiss.
You can even (*very* deliberately) set your watch forward (or backwards) to Midnight in front of her, give her an innocent "Oh I guess I'm supposed to kiss you now" look and go in for the kill. All done calmly with a smile, a sense of humor, and a "take it or leave it" attitude.
Once you've gotten to that point, keep escalating. Usually I say "Never fully make
out in a bar", but tonight is different.
It's New Years Eve! Go for it!
Tip #5: Hang out with the cool kids.
No matter what your age, only go out with cool friends who will support your goals.
Remember, women *will* judge you by your friends. If their are people in your life
who aren't quite up to par with you socially, this is the wrong night to spend time with them.
On the other hand, if you can go out with your best 'wingmen' definitely do it, it
could very well have to do more with your success then where you go.
By the way, I'm not just talking about wingmen here. Other single girl 'friends' and
couples can help you as much as (or even more then!) your male friends with game.
Tip #6: Don't overdo the banter!
I affectionately call New Years Eve amateur night.
I don't mean to disrespect anyone with that statement - I'm just trying to accurately assess what makes meeting girls on this night different. Clearly one of the biggest distinctions is that this is the one night where EVERYONE goes out.
Frankly, many of the people you'll see out drinking, dancing, and hooking up haven't
been out all year.
And I not just talking about guys either.
Many of the hot women you'll meet on New Years hardly ever go out. This is especially true with the most successful, most attractive women since they are often too busy working on their career and their bodies to hit the bar every weekend.
The end result is that many desirable women out on New Years are much less exposed to the attraction techniques we teach.
That means you probably need a lot *less* of your attraction techniques then normal.
Remember, once a woman likes you, you need to move into rapport, escalate things
physically, or risk losing her interest.
After all, women want to hook up on New Years as much as we do, and once she likes you she's thinking "What's next?" If you answer question with more entertaining stories or harmless flirting she is likely to lose interest.
In this environment whatever skill you have will be much more effective.
Now these women aren't that easy to spot. Unlike the guys who rarely hit the singles
scene, these girls know how to dress, how to socialize, and usually even know how to
dance.
So take it easy with the attraction techniques and escalate early, you won't need
as much as you might think.
Tip #7: After you make out with a girl, figure out the logistics ASAP.
If you want to bring a girl home with you, you definitely don't want to wait too long to broach the subject. If you are going to meet lot's of resistance, it's better to know that early on while you can still move on if you choose. If you wait till the end of the night you could miss out.
Find out who she is with, what their plans are, and what commitments she has sooner
rather then later. Is she driving anyone home? Is anyone planning on giving her a
ride? Is she there with protective friends or relatives that you might have to make a good impression on?
These are all questions I like to get to the bottom of right away after a little new
year's kissing. No waiting required.
The after party is at your house, right?
So all you need to do is say, "Hey, we're having an after party later, did you guys all come together?" Her answer will give you an early indication of what the chances of her coming back with you are. If you do this early in the night, you are not looking for a "Yes", just a "maybe" and some more information about what the logistics are.
Tip #8: Keep an eye on your target
I'm a big fan of "takeaways" (also known as giving girls "the gift of missing you") but I am real careful using these techniques in extremely chaotic environments.
If you've found the girl you *really* want, keep an eye on her!
Leave her for a second and you may lose sight of her. Lose sight of her, and she could be lip locked with another guy by the time you find her again.
Trust me even after you've met another girl, you'll still think about the one that got away.
Tip #9: Have fun!
Don't work so hard on your game and push your goals so much that you forget to have a good time. Being the funnest guy in the room will do more for your night, and your results, then all the other tips combined.
Let's face... no guy wants to be alone on New Year's Eve.
There's nothing worse than standing alone by yourself at Midnight while everyone else around you is kissing, and if you've been studying PickUp 101 Material, it should NEVER happen to you.
And I've got a little known secret to tell you... New Year's Eve is one of the best
nights of the year to hook up.
This is the ONE NIGHT that it's finally 'okay' for women to act out on their romantic and sexual desires. So don't let that special someone (or those special people!) down this holiday season.
I put together this Guide to Hooking Up New Year's Even to help you as you head out to one of the biggest celebrations of the year.
And remember the single most important thing is to have FUN!
Tip #1: Have transportation home planned.
Don't underestimate the power of a designated driver and one empty seat on New Years Eve. I don't know how it is in your town, but in San Francisco getting a cab on New Years from 2 to 3 a.m. is next to impossible.
Having a ride planned out gives her an easy excuse to ditch her friends and catch a ride with you!
Tip #2: Pick a large venue and stay there.
It's better to go to one big party the whole night then to go to several small parties over the course of the night. As the night progresses, things tend to favor those who have been the most social all night.
Women you flirted with earlier will come back to talk to you. Even the people you haven't talked to will start to recognize you as one of the more social people in the room.
This helps tremendously, and is all lost if you jump from party to party.
Tip #3: Have a goal in mind.
Are you looking to set up a bunch of dates for the New Year, to get a girlfriend, or to just have fun and hook-up for the night? It's worth mentioning that if you don't know what you are looking for you won't know when you have found it.
Tip #4: Countdowns are for wimps.
If you have a girl attracted to you and have been talking to her a while DON'T wait till midnight to get the kiss. If she likes you then practically any line works here. You can look at your watch and say, "Damn, it's only 10:30!".
Then pause and say, "I'm not waiting" and go in for the kiss.
You can even (*very* deliberately) set your watch forward (or backwards) to Midnight in front of her, give her an innocent "Oh I guess I'm supposed to kiss you now" look and go in for the kill. All done calmly with a smile, a sense of humor, and a "take it or leave it" attitude.
Once you've gotten to that point, keep escalating. Usually I say "Never fully make
out in a bar", but tonight is different.
It's New Years Eve! Go for it!
Tip #5: Hang out with the cool kids.
No matter what your age, only go out with cool friends who will support your goals.
Remember, women *will* judge you by your friends. If their are people in your life
who aren't quite up to par with you socially, this is the wrong night to spend time with them.
On the other hand, if you can go out with your best 'wingmen' definitely do it, it
could very well have to do more with your success then where you go.
By the way, I'm not just talking about wingmen here. Other single girl 'friends' and
couples can help you as much as (or even more then!) your male friends with game.
Tip #6: Don't overdo the banter!
I affectionately call New Years Eve amateur night.
I don't mean to disrespect anyone with that statement - I'm just trying to accurately assess what makes meeting girls on this night different. Clearly one of the biggest distinctions is that this is the one night where EVERYONE goes out.
Frankly, many of the people you'll see out drinking, dancing, and hooking up haven't
been out all year.
And I not just talking about guys either.
Many of the hot women you'll meet on New Years hardly ever go out. This is especially true with the most successful, most attractive women since they are often too busy working on their career and their bodies to hit the bar every weekend.
The end result is that many desirable women out on New Years are much less exposed to the attraction techniques we teach.
That means you probably need a lot *less* of your attraction techniques then normal.
Remember, once a woman likes you, you need to move into rapport, escalate things
physically, or risk losing her interest.
After all, women want to hook up on New Years as much as we do, and once she likes you she's thinking "What's next?" If you answer question with more entertaining stories or harmless flirting she is likely to lose interest.
In this environment whatever skill you have will be much more effective.
Now these women aren't that easy to spot. Unlike the guys who rarely hit the singles
scene, these girls know how to dress, how to socialize, and usually even know how to
dance.
So take it easy with the attraction techniques and escalate early, you won't need
as much as you might think.
Tip #7: After you make out with a girl, figure out the logistics ASAP.
If you want to bring a girl home with you, you definitely don't want to wait too long to broach the subject. If you are going to meet lot's of resistance, it's better to know that early on while you can still move on if you choose. If you wait till the end of the night you could miss out.
Find out who she is with, what their plans are, and what commitments she has sooner
rather then later. Is she driving anyone home? Is anyone planning on giving her a
ride? Is she there with protective friends or relatives that you might have to make a good impression on?
These are all questions I like to get to the bottom of right away after a little new
year's kissing. No waiting required.
The after party is at your house, right?
So all you need to do is say, "Hey, we're having an after party later, did you guys all come together?" Her answer will give you an early indication of what the chances of her coming back with you are. If you do this early in the night, you are not looking for a "Yes", just a "maybe" and some more information about what the logistics are.
Tip #8: Keep an eye on your target
I'm a big fan of "takeaways" (also known as giving girls "the gift of missing you") but I am real careful using these techniques in extremely chaotic environments.
If you've found the girl you *really* want, keep an eye on her!
Leave her for a second and you may lose sight of her. Lose sight of her, and she could be lip locked with another guy by the time you find her again.
Trust me even after you've met another girl, you'll still think about the one that got away.
Tip #9: Have fun!
Don't work so hard on your game and push your goals so much that you forget to have a good time. Being the funnest guy in the room will do more for your night, and your results, then all the other tips combined.
Wednesday, December 27, 2006
Doctor Paul "Seventh Sense" Seminar
Doctor Paul, who is the pimp daddy of all dating guru's, has got a seminar coming in Chicago soon. Worth the flight... he's got some of the most groundbreaking ideas (scientifically based) that get results! Fun guy.
Details:
Dr. Paul presents...
The Seventh Sense Seminar Friday, Saturday, & Sunday Feb. 2nd - 4th, 2007 in Chicago, IL. USA!
If you are ready to explore all parts of sexual attraction, dating, relationships and masculine power. This program is designed to give you more than skills. You will learn about mastering your instincts with women.
Read more on Dr Paul's website...
Details:
Dr. Paul presents...
The Seventh Sense Seminar Friday, Saturday, & Sunday Feb. 2nd - 4th, 2007 in Chicago, IL. USA!
If you are ready to explore all parts of sexual attraction, dating, relationships and masculine power. This program is designed to give you more than skills. You will learn about mastering your instincts with women.
Read more on Dr Paul's website...
Saturday, December 23, 2006
Don't Despair:The Change Is Happening
Sometimes we put a lot of burden on ourselves in this community. Everything is our fault with women, and we have the power to change our destiny. All true statements.
I've noticed, for myself, it can be overwhelming at times when it seems you've been doing all you can do.
Don't despair. Change is happening, and you're the one making a better life for yourself. Few people care about your immediate success but you... and your future girlfriends. They want a quality man that they can share those special moments in life with.
Become the man you would want to be with if you were a woman.
So don't get down on yourself for not picking up that 10 at the club last night. Work on it. Play with it. Don't take yourself so seriously, and have FUN.
It's all about experiences.
Donovan
I've noticed, for myself, it can be overwhelming at times when it seems you've been doing all you can do.
Don't despair. Change is happening, and you're the one making a better life for yourself. Few people care about your immediate success but you... and your future girlfriends. They want a quality man that they can share those special moments in life with.
Become the man you would want to be with if you were a woman.
So don't get down on yourself for not picking up that 10 at the club last night. Work on it. Play with it. Don't take yourself so seriously, and have FUN.
It's all about experiences.
Donovan
Thursday, December 21, 2006
Mystery Method Relationship Seminar Redux
Got a email from Savoy (CEO of Mystery Method).
There are only 6 spaces left at the January 27th, 2007 relationship seminar in Los Angeles, he expects them to be full by Boxing Day.
Visit:
www.themysterymethod.com/rm.htm
To see if it's what you're looking for. Then EMAIL me attractionchronicles @ gmail.com to claim your discount.
Hurry and register, this seminar is also personalized coaching after the seminar with Savoy.
Donovan
There are only 6 spaces left at the January 27th, 2007 relationship seminar in Los Angeles, he expects them to be full by Boxing Day.
Visit:
www.themysterymethod.com/rm.htm
To see if it's what you're looking for. Then EMAIL me attractionchronicles @ gmail.com to claim your discount.
Hurry and register, this seminar is also personalized coaching after the seminar with Savoy.
Donovan
Monday, December 18, 2006
How To Use Flirting To Make Her Want You
I want to talk about the concept of "flirting", and why it's SO important that you understand exactly what it is and how to do it with women.
To begin with, women know what flirting is and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication.
If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.
If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women.
I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.
Think of flirting like playing.
Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends?
What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling?
And how do you know the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?
The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're serious.
Flirting is similar.
If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.
On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.
By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".
One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny."
Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.
It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks.
This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.
So let me explain this whole thing a different way...
If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and ATTRACTION.
When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state.
One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.
I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad mood or even one of those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that they're a failure.
But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you. If you want to see some video clips of me TEACHING Cocky & Funny then go here and check out the examples:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/CockyComedy/
Here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of getting married and us being in a relationship... and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample dialog. Keep in mind, I might have a
conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"
Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."
Her: "OK, that sounds like a plan"
Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on the TV and such."
Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."
Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce you a week later and take half your money."
Her: "You can't break up with me! I'm not even your girlfriend."
Me: "That's all the more reason."
...do you get what's going on here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting
me, etc.).
If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.
When you ask for something and she says, "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you."
In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men initiate.
And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.
There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.
If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it.
If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that
she wants you. This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.
There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is that you NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.
It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialog that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.
One of the keys to flirting and creating ATTRACTION effectively, is projecting confidence and indifference both in your voice tone and body language as you do it...
And in order to project these things, you need to have the right understanding and BELIEFS about how male/female ATTRACTION works... and then be able to project them throughout your conversation with women.
The program you need to get if you want to learn how to FLIRT with women is my famous "Cocky Comedy" DVD/CD program.
One of the SPECIFIC things that I saw guys who were "naturals" with women doing... and one of the things that I later learned to do... is what I call "being Cocky & Funny".
You've probably read about the technique in these newsletters I send you.
This is essentially my FAVORITE "technique", and the reason why is because it's FUN... and it WORKS.
It's fun for you, it's fun for her, and it works like MAD to spark and build ATTRACTION.
If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with a woman and seen that SPARK in her eye... and the smile on her face... then you KNOW how powerful this is.
Well, this program will take your basic skills and SUPERCHARGE them. I'll teach you everything from the foundations of humor and laughter... all the way to specific word-by-word lines for the most common situations you find yourself in with women.
Go check it out, and watch some video clips here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/CockyComedy/
Oh, and if you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to get your ass in gear and do that right now. You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now. Get it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend
David D
To begin with, women know what flirting is and they respond VERY differently to flirting communication than they do to typical social communication.
If you understand flirting and sexual tension, you can begin conversations with women and have them INSTANTLY feeling ATTRACTION for you.
If you DON'T understand how flirting and sexual tension work, then you're either going to have to become famous or make a LOT of money to be successful with women.
I'm going to suggest that you learn how to flirt well, then do it RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING in your interactions with women to SET THE RIGHT TONE.
Think of flirting like playing.
Remember when you were a kid and you used to "play fight" with your friends?
What's the difference between "play" wrestling and "real" wrestling?
And how do you know the difference when it's happening... when your friend runs up and pushes you down, then jumps on you and tries to pin you?
The answer is YOU JUST KNOW. It's obvious to humans (and other animals, by the way) when someone is "playing" and when they're serious.
Flirting is similar.
If you start talking to a woman and say, "Hi, you're very pretty. You probably have a boyfriend, right?" in a normal tone of voice, you're NOT flirting.
On the other hand, if you say, "Hi, I realize that you're probably shy because you get no attention from men... so I thought I'd come over here and pay attention to you..." it's OBVIOUS that you're not being serious. This is flirting.
By the way, flirting IS NOT simply telling jokes, or trying to be "cute".
One of the concepts that I teach is called "Cocky & Funny."
Cocky & Funny is simply a powerful, concentrated way of flirting and creating sexual tension with a specific kind of humor.
It's so funny to me how some guys write in because they "can't see themselves being Cocky & Funny around women" because they don't want to come across as jerks.
This really cracks me up... because it's obvious to me that these guys JUST DON'T GET IT.
So let me explain this whole thing a different way...
If you know how to communicate the right way, women will respond to you RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING with a HIGH LEVEL of sexual interest and ATTRACTION.
When you know how to incorporate flirting in a Cocky & Funny way, which is really a form of "adult verbal play", you tune in to a certain frequency in a woman's mind and cause her to go into a very special kind of emotional state.
One of the keys to effective flirting is to "get it". In other words, you have to actually get out there and practice so you get a "feel" for how it works.
I think a lot of guys give up when they try a cute line or technique and a woman responds by saying "You're a loser." Instead of just realizing that they need more practice or that the woman might have just been in a bad mood or even one of those horrible "I don't have a sense of humor" cases, they take it personally and decide to just have it mean that they're a failure.
But take my word for it... once you learn how to flirt effectively and communicate in the language of "adult play" you WILL SIMPLY NOT BELIEVE how women will respond to you. If you want to see some video clips of me TEACHING Cocky & Funny then go here and check out the examples:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/CockyComedy/
Here's an example of some of one of my favorite topics to "riff on" when flirting... the topic of getting married and us being in a relationship... and I'll give it to you in the form of a sample dialog. Keep in mind, I might have a
conversation like this one with a woman that I just met five minutes earlier...
Her: "I have a good job, and I make good money"
Me: "Nice. I like that in a woman. Want to get married? We could leave for Vegas right now and be married in about 4 or 5 hours. I need a woman with money."
Her:
Me: "But wait a minute... do you think you can support the both of us on your income? I really want to be a stay at home husband... you know, keep an eye on the TV and such."
Her: "Oh, no... I won't support you."
Me: "Well, then I'm breaking up with you. It's over between us. I was going to marry you, then divorce you a week later and take half your money."
Her:
Me: "That's all the more reason."
...do you get what's going on here?
I'm taking a normal conversation topic (her job and income) and redirecting the conversation in a flirtatious, Cocky & Funny way to create a fun mood and sexual tension (by suggesting marriage, divorce, and breaking up over her not supporting
me, etc.).
If the above example doesn't make any sense to you, then take that as a sign that you need to get out and practice more. Try it on a waitress or two.
When you ask for something and she says, "I'm sorry, we don't have that", just say, "OK, this relationship isn't working out... I'm going to have to break up with you."
In fact, you can say this in just about ANY situation with ANY woman where she's saying something that you don't like, and it's funny.
When you communicate like this, you're FLIRTING, you're TEASING, and you're initiating a DIFFERENT KIND OF COMMUNICATION than what most men initiate.
And as soon as the woman you're talking to "engages" you in this kind of dialogue, THE GAME IS ON.
There are a LOT of ways you can flirt, and a lot of ways you can be Cocky & Funny that DON'T REQUIRE WORDS.
If a woman looks at you and raises one eyebrow, look back at her and do the same... only exaggerate it.
If a woman puts her hand on your arm, look down at it, then look up at her in a surprised way, then raise your eyebrows as if you just had a major "ah ha!" realization... then start smiling and nodding your head as if you just realized that
she wants you. This is a powerful combination because it's funny, and it exaggerates the meaning in her touching you.
There are a MILLION ways to flirt like this, but the point that I'm trying to make is that you NEED TO START DOING IT RIGHT FROM THE BEGINNING OF YOUR INTERACTIONS WITH WOMEN.
It will set off all of your conversations with women on the right foot, and start a dialog that creates sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
If you DON'T learn how to communicate with women like this you'll have BORING, "NORMAL" conversations that NEVER lead to sexual tension and ATTRACTION.
Remember, women can tell INSTANTLY whether you're flirting with them or not. If you are, and you're doing it in a subtle, charming way, you'll get amazing responses.
One of the keys to flirting and creating ATTRACTION effectively, is projecting confidence and indifference both in your voice tone and body language as you do it...
And in order to project these things, you need to have the right understanding and BELIEFS about how male/female ATTRACTION works... and then be able to project them throughout your conversation with women.
The program you need to get if you want to learn how to FLIRT with women is my famous "Cocky Comedy" DVD/CD program.
One of the SPECIFIC things that I saw guys who were "naturals" with women doing... and one of the things that I later learned to do... is what I call "being Cocky & Funny".
You've probably read about the technique in these newsletters I send you.
This is essentially my FAVORITE "technique", and the reason why is because it's FUN... and it WORKS.
It's fun for you, it's fun for her, and it works like MAD to spark and build ATTRACTION.
If you've tried being Cocky & Funny with a woman and seen that SPARK in her eye... and the smile on her face... then you KNOW how powerful this is.
Well, this program will take your basic skills and SUPERCHARGE them. I'll teach you everything from the foundations of humor and laughter... all the way to specific word-by-word lines for the most common situations you find yourself in with women.
Go check it out, and watch some video clips here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/CockyComedy/
Oh, and if you haven't gone and downloaded my online eBook "Double Your Dating", then you need to get your ass in gear and do that right now. You can download it and be reading it in just a few minutes from right now. Get it here:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/eBook/
I'll talk to you again soon.
Your Friend
David D
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