When I first started learning how to meet women and get dates, the internet was an AMAZING tool for me.
One of the great things about meeting women online is that you can literally do it ANYTIME... from anywhere...
It's also a great place to practice first conversations, Cocky & Funny humor, and escalating from "conversations" to DATES.
If you're interesting in learning more about how to meet women online, then you should take a couple of minutes and check THIS out. Make sure you watch the video clips, by the way...
http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mwo
Let me know what you think.
Talk soon,
David D.
Showing posts with label online dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label online dating. Show all posts
Tuesday, August 14, 2007
Sunday, May 13, 2007
Outsourcing Online Dating
My recent interview with author Tim Ferriss about how he outsourced his online dating was super interesting. Check it out.
Thursday, December 14, 2006
eHarmony Review
Well, Thundercat posted an article on his blog about eHarmony. From what he was saying, it sounds like the worst site on the Internet. Not only is it a waste of time (literally - time consuming to setup an account), but it also seems like there's nothing but freak show, desperate women on there. AFC's we need you, go over to this site, eHarmony and do some charity work.
In the end, Thundercat ended up saying:
"Over all, I’d say that eHarmony is one of the WORST dating sites for guys out there. Personally, I think that company is kept afloat by a gaggle of desperate, ugly women who struck out on all the other dating sites out there. If you’re looking to get some quality results with online dating, go for a site that gives you more freedom and better search quality, like Match or Yahoo. And if you don’t want to pay for it, stick to MySpace."
If you want the edge with online dating, like a total system with secret techniques and results based on experience from experts, check out David Deangelo's "Meeting Women Online" DVD set. Really awesome stuff.
Donovan
In the end, Thundercat ended up saying:
"Over all, I’d say that eHarmony is one of the WORST dating sites for guys out there. Personally, I think that company is kept afloat by a gaggle of desperate, ugly women who struck out on all the other dating sites out there. If you’re looking to get some quality results with online dating, go for a site that gives you more freedom and better search quality, like Match or Yahoo. And if you don’t want to pay for it, stick to MySpace."
If you want the edge with online dating, like a total system with secret techniques and results based on experience from experts, check out David Deangelo's "Meeting Women Online" DVD set. Really awesome stuff.
Donovan
Tuesday, November 7, 2006
3 Secrets of Meeting Women Online
If you've "tried" online dating, and not gotten the results that you wanted... or you'd like to learn how to write online personal ads that get MASSIVE RESPONSE, then go read this:
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/MeetingWomenOnline/
***SUCCESS STORY***
Well I have to say I was a little skeptical about your book at first. I've never been very successful with women. I've always been the shy, quiet type that treat women like a prize and act like a wussy. Well after a few newsletters I decided to give it a shot. Well it all made sense to me so I got your CD series and it's even better then the book. So I decided to try the C&F method.
I've been on some dating sites for a few years and occasionally I would get a response. A little over a week ago I changed my profile so I wasn't such a wussy and pleading with women with how good of a catch I'd be (as most women say they want a nice guy) In less then a week, I've gotten 5 responses. It's amazing. I'm only about half way through with the CD's too can't wait to see what else they hold.
JN from NY
>>>>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh, Ye of little faith...
Remember something.
Women are always INTERPRETING everything you say.
In other words, they want to know what things MEAN.
When you say, "I'm a great guy" in your profile, a woman reading it says to herself, "yeah, right... If you were a great guy, then you wouldn't need to SAY it. You're probably a loser who WISHES that he were a great guy."
On the other hand, if you write a Cocky & Funny profile that talks about how picky you are and that you're trying this online dating thing as a last resort because all the attractive women you meet bore you... then a woman will think to herself, "Ah ha! A challenge! I'll bet you that I can get his attention...".
Great job, and keep me posted on your future success stories.
David
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/MeetingWomenOnline/
***SUCCESS STORY***
Well I have to say I was a little skeptical about your book at first. I've never been very successful with women. I've always been the shy, quiet type that treat women like a prize and act like a wussy. Well after a few newsletters I decided to give it a shot. Well it all made sense to me so I got your CD series and it's even better then the book. So I decided to try the C&F method.
I've been on some dating sites for a few years and occasionally I would get a response. A little over a week ago I changed my profile so I wasn't such a wussy and pleading with women with how good of a catch I'd be (as most women say they want a nice guy) In less then a week, I've gotten 5 responses. It's amazing. I'm only about half way through with the CD's too can't wait to see what else they hold.
JN from NY
>>>>>>MY COMMENTS:
Oh, Ye of little faith...
Remember something.
Women are always INTERPRETING everything you say.
In other words, they want to know what things MEAN.
When you say, "I'm a great guy" in your profile, a woman reading it says to herself, "yeah, right... If you were a great guy, then you wouldn't need to SAY it. You're probably a loser who WISHES that he were a great guy."
On the other hand, if you write a Cocky & Funny profile that talks about how picky you are and that you're trying this online dating thing as a last resort because all the attractive women you meet bore you... then a woman will think to herself, "Ah ha! A challenge! I'll bet you that I can get his attention...".
Great job, and keep me posted on your future success stories.
David
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
Meeting Women Online: "Tips and Tricks"
***QUESTION***
Dear David,
WOW. It works. I started by reading part of your book, and used some of it, and it worked great. I couldn't believe that it was your advice that helped me, I thought it was a shift in the universe or something. It was amazing. So, I went back to being a wussbag. The girl who accepted me one day rejected me the next. Bewildered, I continued to read your book, applied it once again, and I now get plenty of wonderful feedback from women of all sorts (not to mention the wonderful dates).
But, my question is this. How cocky is too cocky? I have stated the meekest positive aspect of myself and other times flouted my greatness. I do not know what the limit is, and I know it must exist. Mustn't it?
MSY, from Maryland
MY COMMENTS:
You're asking a good question here.
Remember, the formula isn't "Cocky".
The formula is "Cocky PLUS Funny".
You can say just about ANYTHING as long as what you are saying is actually FUNNY.
Remember, this technique is very powerful. It's a way of communicating with women that actually TRIGGERS and then AMPLIFIES ATTRACTION.
I've learned that "arrogance" or "cockiness" is NOT unattractive to women... as long as they're not an obvious over compensation for INSECURITY.
When you ask me what the "limit" is, what I hear you saying is, "I'm afraid to push this too far".
Don't let your own insecurities and doubts stop you from using a great technique.
Use it. But make sure you add the all powerful ingredient: HUMOR. The humor is what makes this technique magic.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I've been enjoying your advanced series very much, and have found a lot of success over the last few months. All this success is exciting, but I'm finding that I have to rethink my usual responses to just about everything. A case in point:
Last night over the phone, the woman I've been spending the most time with lately spent a lot of effort telling me how much she loves me. In fact, I think she's really falling for me hard. The question is, though, how do I respond to a woman that gets all mushy without spending all of my attraction points? If she says something like
"I've fallen in love with you" or "I love you soooooo much", what are some examples of things to say back that will keep the attraction building?
Your devoted fan,
A in Oregon
MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, that's one of the fringe benefits of learning these concepts... women actually start to LOVE you.
You left an important part out of your question...
You didn't mention how you feel about this girl yourself, and what YOU want out of the relationship.
I'll have different answers for you based on what your intentions are.
But to give you the most direct answer to your question of how to respond to this... take a page out of the "Han Solo Manual For Responding To Women Who Say That They Love You".
Remember at the end of Empire Strikes Back when Han was about to be frozen in Carbonite, and Princess Leia said, "I Love You"?
Remember what Han said back?
He said, "I know".
Cocky, Funny, and Evasive.
Some variations:
"You should."
"I don't blame you."
"Well, I would if I were you."
...these are all fun.
One warning: If this woman is ACTUALLY falling in love with you because you've been seeing her five times a week for the last six months, then you need to remember that this is a serious thing.
If you've gone out with her 4 times over the last 3 weeks, that's different. But, if she thinks you're getting married soon, then you might want to consider what you really want out of this, and act accordingly.
***QUESTION***
I must commend you on that masterpiece you wrote,your Double Your Dating. You captured my attention and maintained it through out the entire reading! I actually downloaded it this morning 'round 8:00 or so and you kept me reading it until almost
noon! I don't think there's another person out there that has EVER kept my attention so intensely though such a restricted and normally dry medium! I found much of the thoughts you expressed to be very insightful and exceptionally well communicated. This being said, I find myself in a conundrum that seems like it would lend itself to
your expertise. A bit of pre-amble.....
I'm 22 years old and I live in Ontario, Canada but only about 10 minutes from the Michigan border. About 3 months ago I joined some sorta gay-assed meeting service online here more out of curiosity than anything else but I came across this one wonderous lady from Michigan who lives about an hour and a half away. We've emailed each other probably 60-70 times and we've talked on the phone quite a number of times as well but we've never met in person yet. Well that day is to be approaching soon and I've come across a conflict of ideas now that I've read your book. For the most part, everything I do is the opposite of what you suggest with the odd exception like my humorous nature. The problem lies in the idea of changing my character to suit what you described (in a VERY logical manner) to be the ideal actions a fellow is to take. I have an interest in her, and she (as far as I can tell) has an interest in me... but the idea of being very non-challant and sort of distant/hard to get although it appeals to me GREATLY with someone new, I'm not sure would be advisable in this situation. If you could give me some feed back I would be greatly indebted to your wisdom even more.
Thanks for your time, J
MY COMMENTS:
In your email you said, "I don't think there's another person out there that has EVER kept my attention so intensely though such a restricted and normally dry medium!"
I'll tell you what man... if you keep talking this way the "medium" isn't the only thing that's going to be dry.
Someone get this guy a copy of the "How to talk like a normal guy that most people don't think is a JACKASS" manual.
Look man. You can't go through life trying to sound like you're more intelligent than everyone else... especially when you're 22... unless you want women to respond to you the way the woman in the bar responded to Russell Crowe's advances in "A Beautiful Mind". Watch the movie if you need the specifics.
It's OK to be smart. No problem.
But when you try to TALK like you're smart, you usually end up coming off as insecure and nerdy.
Case in point: Your email.
And no, saying "gay-assed" doesn't make you cool.
Trust me.
Now, as for your girl situation...
If you've met a girl on the internet and emailed her back and forth 60 or 70 times, then you should probably do what has worked for you so far, and don't change what you're doing just because you read my book.
You're going to want to practice for a little while before you go completely changing your entire personality with a woman who thinks she's going to be marrying you soon. (Did I say that?)
You're dealing with a classic problem:
You don't know how to meet women effectively, so this one woman is VERY IMPORTANT.
If you start doing the things that I recommend with her, and it doesn't work out, you'll blame me... when it was probably your fault for acting like her girlfriend for the last 47 years by email.
Go meet more women. Practice what you've learned. And do what you've been doing with the girl you met online, because if you change into a different person right before her eyes she might think you're psycho... and get a restraining order against you. Hell, I'm trying to figure out why she doesn't have one ALREADY the way you talk...
lol.
I know, I know. I'm a funny guy.
And, another thing (or two)...
Get yourself a copy of this:
http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mwo
David D.
Dear David,
WOW. It works. I started by reading part of your book, and used some of it, and it worked great. I couldn't believe that it was your advice that helped me, I thought it was a shift in the universe or something. It was amazing. So, I went back to being a wussbag. The girl who accepted me one day rejected me the next. Bewildered, I continued to read your book, applied it once again, and I now get plenty of wonderful feedback from women of all sorts (not to mention the wonderful dates).
But, my question is this. How cocky is too cocky? I have stated the meekest positive aspect of myself and other times flouted my greatness. I do not know what the limit is, and I know it must exist. Mustn't it?
MSY, from Maryland
MY COMMENTS:
You're asking a good question here.
Remember, the formula isn't "Cocky".
The formula is "Cocky PLUS Funny".
You can say just about ANYTHING as long as what you are saying is actually FUNNY.
Remember, this technique is very powerful. It's a way of communicating with women that actually TRIGGERS and then AMPLIFIES ATTRACTION.
I've learned that "arrogance" or "cockiness" is NOT unattractive to women... as long as they're not an obvious over compensation for INSECURITY.
When you ask me what the "limit" is, what I hear you saying is, "I'm afraid to push this too far".
Don't let your own insecurities and doubts stop you from using a great technique.
Use it. But make sure you add the all powerful ingredient: HUMOR. The humor is what makes this technique magic.
***QUESTION***
Dave,
I've been enjoying your advanced series very much, and have found a lot of success over the last few months. All this success is exciting, but I'm finding that I have to rethink my usual responses to just about everything. A case in point:
Last night over the phone, the woman I've been spending the most time with lately spent a lot of effort telling me how much she loves me. In fact, I think she's really falling for me hard. The question is, though, how do I respond to a woman that gets all mushy without spending all of my attraction points? If she says something like
"I've fallen in love with you" or "I love you soooooo much", what are some examples of things to say back that will keep the attraction building?
Your devoted fan,
A in Oregon
MY COMMENTS:
Yeah, that's one of the fringe benefits of learning these concepts... women actually start to LOVE you.
You left an important part out of your question...
You didn't mention how you feel about this girl yourself, and what YOU want out of the relationship.
I'll have different answers for you based on what your intentions are.
But to give you the most direct answer to your question of how to respond to this... take a page out of the "Han Solo Manual For Responding To Women Who Say That They Love You".
Remember at the end of Empire Strikes Back when Han was about to be frozen in Carbonite, and Princess Leia said, "I Love You"?
Remember what Han said back?
He said, "I know".
Cocky, Funny, and Evasive.
Some variations:
"You should."
"I don't blame you."
"Well, I would if I were you."
...these are all fun.
One warning: If this woman is ACTUALLY falling in love with you because you've been seeing her five times a week for the last six months, then you need to remember that this is a serious thing.
If you've gone out with her 4 times over the last 3 weeks, that's different. But, if she thinks you're getting married soon, then you might want to consider what you really want out of this, and act accordingly.
***QUESTION***
I must commend you on that masterpiece you wrote,your Double Your Dating. You captured my attention and maintained it through out the entire reading! I actually downloaded it this morning 'round 8:00 or so and you kept me reading it until almost
noon! I don't think there's another person out there that has EVER kept my attention so intensely though such a restricted and normally dry medium! I found much of the thoughts you expressed to be very insightful and exceptionally well communicated. This being said, I find myself in a conundrum that seems like it would lend itself to
your expertise. A bit of pre-amble.....
I'm 22 years old and I live in Ontario, Canada but only about 10 minutes from the Michigan border. About 3 months ago I joined some sorta gay-assed meeting service online here more out of curiosity than anything else but I came across this one wonderous lady from Michigan who lives about an hour and a half away. We've emailed each other probably 60-70 times and we've talked on the phone quite a number of times as well but we've never met in person yet. Well that day is to be approaching soon and I've come across a conflict of ideas now that I've read your book. For the most part, everything I do is the opposite of what you suggest with the odd exception like my humorous nature. The problem lies in the idea of changing my character to suit what you described (in a VERY logical manner) to be the ideal actions a fellow is to take. I have an interest in her, and she (as far as I can tell) has an interest in me... but the idea of being very non-challant and sort of distant/hard to get although it appeals to me GREATLY with someone new, I'm not sure would be advisable in this situation. If you could give me some feed back I would be greatly indebted to your wisdom even more.
Thanks for your time, J
MY COMMENTS:
In your email you said, "I don't think there's another person out there that has EVER kept my attention so intensely though such a restricted and normally dry medium!"
I'll tell you what man... if you keep talking this way the "medium" isn't the only thing that's going to be dry.
Someone get this guy a copy of the "How to talk like a normal guy that most people don't think is a JACKASS" manual.
Look man. You can't go through life trying to sound like you're more intelligent than everyone else... especially when you're 22... unless you want women to respond to you the way the woman in the bar responded to Russell Crowe's advances in "A Beautiful Mind". Watch the movie if you need the specifics.
It's OK to be smart. No problem.
But when you try to TALK like you're smart, you usually end up coming off as insecure and nerdy.
Case in point: Your email.
And no, saying "gay-assed" doesn't make you cool.
Trust me.
Now, as for your girl situation...
If you've met a girl on the internet and emailed her back and forth 60 or 70 times, then you should probably do what has worked for you so far, and don't change what you're doing just because you read my book.
You're going to want to practice for a little while before you go completely changing your entire personality with a woman who thinks she's going to be marrying you soon. (Did I say that?)
You're dealing with a classic problem:
You don't know how to meet women effectively, so this one woman is VERY IMPORTANT.
If you start doing the things that I recommend with her, and it doesn't work out, you'll blame me... when it was probably your fault for acting like her girlfriend for the last 47 years by email.
Go meet more women. Practice what you've learned. And do what you've been doing with the girl you met online, because if you change into a different person right before her eyes she might think you're psycho... and get a restraining order against you. Hell, I'm trying to figure out why she doesn't have one ALREADY the way you talk...
lol.
I know, I know. I'm a funny guy.
And, another thing (or two)...
Get yourself a copy of this:
http://www.seduction-chronicles.net/mwo
David D.
Saturday, August 26, 2006
Tips for Internet Dating with Neil Strauss
Just a small clip from the Meeting Women Online program of David D's. I thought this would not get me in to much trouble with the "authorities". He gives an overview and is introduced. Check it out.
Tuesday, August 8, 2006
Donovan's Field Reports
Ok guys, I apologize, this blog has been rather commercialized of late. Although, this really did start out as a way for me to document the different pickup guru's advice, so I feel obligated to plug them when I post their thoughts and original ideas.
Ok, I have a confession to make. I just bought Season 2 of Entourage. What an awesome, well-written and great experience that is to watch. It's quite the distraction from posting. So I'll finish watching it, and get back to it!
Oh guys... Ive just completed a new "Seduction Master's Interview" that I'll be posting soon, and I'm in the works with a famous Double Your Dating seminar expert, and also "The Greatest Pickup Artist" in the world...
Anyways, here are some of my previous experiences that I have posted about!
Online Dating With Some of the Pitfalls!
Along Came a Model
Being Process Not Outcome Orientated
Don't Give Women Rope
Understanding Variation and Scarcity With Dating
Don't Let Your Stream Run Dry
Feel the love...
Donovan
Ok, I have a confession to make. I just bought Season 2 of Entourage. What an awesome, well-written and great experience that is to watch. It's quite the distraction from posting. So I'll finish watching it, and get back to it!
Oh guys... Ive just completed a new "Seduction Master's Interview" that I'll be posting soon, and I'm in the works with a famous Double Your Dating seminar expert, and also "The Greatest Pickup Artist" in the world...
Anyways, here are some of my previous experiences that I have posted about!
Online Dating With Some of the Pitfalls!
Along Came a Model
Being Process Not Outcome Orientated
Don't Give Women Rope
Understanding Variation and Scarcity With Dating
Don't Let Your Stream Run Dry
Feel the love...
Donovan
Wednesday, August 2, 2006
Meeting Women Online
Some of you guys who have been with me for a while now, are probably well aware of one of the best online dating resources we have. I got this email from David D about his Meeting Women Online DVD/Audio program. One of the best programs out there, in my opinion, even if Internet Dating is not "your thing", it has great conversational topics, with how to generate interesting conversations, and great insights into how to best present yourself. This stuff also works on Myspace, Facebook, Friendster, Adultfriendfinder, etc.
When I first started learning how to meet women and get dates, the internet was an AMAZING tool for me.
One of the great things about meeting women online is that you can literally do it ANYTIME... from anywhere...
It's also a great place to practice first conversations, Cocky & Funny humor, and escalating from "conversations" to DATES.
If you're interested in learning more about how to meet women online, then you should take a couple of minutes and check THIS out. Make sure you watch the video clips, by the way...
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/MeetingWomenOnline/
Let me know what you think.
Talk soon,
David D.
When I first started learning how to meet women and get dates, the internet was an AMAZING tool for me.
One of the great things about meeting women online is that you can literally do it ANYTIME... from anywhere...
It's also a great place to practice first conversations, Cocky & Funny humor, and escalating from "conversations" to DATES.
If you're interested in learning more about how to meet women online, then you should take a couple of minutes and check THIS out. Make sure you watch the video clips, by the way...
http://www.DoubleYourDatingProgram.com/e/10000/MeetingWomenOnline/
Let me know what you think.
Talk soon,
David D.
Tuesday, April 11, 2006
Online Profile Photo Tips
Look at the bottom for a pickup related profile photo tip.
It's no secret that including a photo with your online profile will get you many more winks and emails. But what's the secret to taking and selecting a great photo that captures your personality and helps you stand out from the crowd? Experts divulge their tried-and-true techniques for taking and posting your best personal pics.
Bad:
Good:
Light up my life - not your forehead.
"Use an external light source whenever possible - please, please realize how bad an on-camera flash is going to make you look," begs Anthony Citrano, a New York-based photographer. "The best kind of light is soft, diffused light. Try bright indirect sunlight (afternoon light through a curtain is one excellent, no-cost example.) Avoid over-exposed, dark or out-of-focus pictures that make it hard to see the real you.
Eyes are the window to the soul - and the key to an authentic shot.
Obscuring your eyes not only hides an important feature, but it can send signals of untrustworthiness. "A direct gaze is important in real life and in pictures," says Maury Faggart, a portrait photographer in Charlotte, NC. "Eye contact does a whole lot for you, so be sure to look directly into the camera." Even if you're facing slightly away from the camera, use only snaps that have you looking at the lens. "And don't wear sunglasses or hats that hide your eyes," advises Faggart.
Dress to impress.
Clothes make the man (and the woman), so wear an outfit that expresses your personality and fits properly. Formal guy? Wear a suit. Outdoors girl? Sport your favorite fleece pullover. "Choose comfortable clothes in a color or colors that look good on you," advises Ginny Morey, a Seattle-based writer and photographer. "If you feel good, you're more likely to look good." High-contrast colors can make you stand out more on an online dating site, so go ahead and wear black and white if that suits you - just don't let the colors be too intense and overwhelm you (think purple and yellow).
Get ready for your close-up.
How you position yourself and your camera makes a huge difference. "If you're short, the shot should originate from slightly below waist level," Citrano counsels. "Stand or sit up straight. You'll look narrower if you angle your arms sharply away from your body and put your hands on your hips. For a masculine shot, shoot from slightly below the waist. For a feminine shot, shoot from slightly above. Chest up and out, tummy in. Roll your shoulders back a little. Elongate your neck a touch."
Improving on nature.
If you can work with the photos digitally a bit, there's nothing wrong with a little tweaking. "Finesse the shots a bit, but not to the point of airbrushing out all flaws and wrinkles,"
Morey notes. "Bump up the color saturation or increase brightness or contrast to make the photo itself more attractive and eye-catching." But, that said, do be sure to post a current photo that presents the most attractive you possible. Don't do anything to present an unrecognizable version of yourself, because that will just make you appear dishonest when you meet a suitor in person. Following these tips will help you take and post the most accurate and flattering photos - and increase your chances of finding love online.
These tips remind me of one of the DVD's on the Meeting Women Online program. David went through some similar (although more indepth) ways to make your profile stand out, and become unique. If online dating isn't you're thing, you should seriously consider making it a PART of you're overall pickup game.
Tip: Always try to have hot women with you in photos, or out in social environments. This helps to create SOCIAL PROOF. Which is more important than the way you look. I'll be posting more information on SOCIAL PROOF, and what it does, why it's soooo important to your game very soon.
It's no secret that including a photo with your online profile will get you many more winks and emails. But what's the secret to taking and selecting a great photo that captures your personality and helps you stand out from the crowd? Experts divulge their tried-and-true techniques for taking and posting your best personal pics.
Bad:
Good:
Light up my life - not your forehead.
"Use an external light source whenever possible - please, please realize how bad an on-camera flash is going to make you look," begs Anthony Citrano, a New York-based photographer. "The best kind of light is soft, diffused light. Try bright indirect sunlight (afternoon light through a curtain is one excellent, no-cost example.) Avoid over-exposed, dark or out-of-focus pictures that make it hard to see the real you.
Eyes are the window to the soul - and the key to an authentic shot.
Obscuring your eyes not only hides an important feature, but it can send signals of untrustworthiness. "A direct gaze is important in real life and in pictures," says Maury Faggart, a portrait photographer in Charlotte, NC. "Eye contact does a whole lot for you, so be sure to look directly into the camera." Even if you're facing slightly away from the camera, use only snaps that have you looking at the lens. "And don't wear sunglasses or hats that hide your eyes," advises Faggart.
Dress to impress.
Clothes make the man (and the woman), so wear an outfit that expresses your personality and fits properly. Formal guy? Wear a suit. Outdoors girl? Sport your favorite fleece pullover. "Choose comfortable clothes in a color or colors that look good on you," advises Ginny Morey, a Seattle-based writer and photographer. "If you feel good, you're more likely to look good." High-contrast colors can make you stand out more on an online dating site, so go ahead and wear black and white if that suits you - just don't let the colors be too intense and overwhelm you (think purple and yellow).
Get ready for your close-up.
How you position yourself and your camera makes a huge difference. "If you're short, the shot should originate from slightly below waist level," Citrano counsels. "Stand or sit up straight. You'll look narrower if you angle your arms sharply away from your body and put your hands on your hips. For a masculine shot, shoot from slightly below the waist. For a feminine shot, shoot from slightly above. Chest up and out, tummy in. Roll your shoulders back a little. Elongate your neck a touch."
Improving on nature.
If you can work with the photos digitally a bit, there's nothing wrong with a little tweaking. "Finesse the shots a bit, but not to the point of airbrushing out all flaws and wrinkles,"
Morey notes. "Bump up the color saturation or increase brightness or contrast to make the photo itself more attractive and eye-catching." But, that said, do be sure to post a current photo that presents the most attractive you possible. Don't do anything to present an unrecognizable version of yourself, because that will just make you appear dishonest when you meet a suitor in person. Following these tips will help you take and post the most accurate and flattering photos - and increase your chances of finding love online.
These tips remind me of one of the DVD's on the Meeting Women Online program. David went through some similar (although more indepth) ways to make your profile stand out, and become unique. If online dating isn't you're thing, you should seriously consider making it a PART of you're overall pickup game.
Tip: Always try to have hot women with you in photos, or out in social environments. This helps to create SOCIAL PROOF. Which is more important than the way you look. I'll be posting more information on SOCIAL PROOF, and what it does, why it's soooo important to your game very soon.
Saturday, April 8, 2006
Where To Meet Younger Women
Found this article that might be of interest to you all:
Dating online is so hot for Spring '06
By Tina Taus
You search and search for the elusive "one," yet you keep meeting the same creeps and jerks. Maybe you’re looking in the wrong places. Where do you meet that special someone these days?
For those with little faith in the dating game or too busy to get out and meet people, online dating is the latest trend. Toni Coleman, a relationship coach and psychotherapist specializing in online dating, said the number of people signing up for online dating is huge.
"I don't know very many singles that are younger that don't do it, especially those growing up with it," Coleman said. "With our culture and with people being so busy, for convenience of time and with the cyber-world we live in, [online dating] has become much more common.
"People are getting comfortable with putting their picture out there [on the Internet]."
As a relationship coach, Coleman helps people with their online ads. For example, she advises physicians to place ads in a manner they are comfortable with, considering their patients may use the dating website as well.
Coleman stressed online dating is no more risky than "regular" dating, saying all too often people are abused by those they date off-line. Coleman said websites have safety policies.
"They all have them... there are sites now offering background checks," she continued, adding online dating might be safer than meeting people casually on the street.
Aside from online dating, one common method for students, especially, is to avoid dating, and simply hook up instead. While people interpret the meaning of hooking up differently, it is generally a one-night stand with someone you have known for years, a few days or a few hours.
Coleman said most of the time, 'one-nighters' do not develop into relationships.
"Almost half of the people these days hook up compared to traditional dating," she said, adding 'hook-ups' seem to be common amongst older groups because people are too busy with their careers to find time to date.
"I think dating has gone out of vogue. Kids have gotten into this thing of going off into groups then splitting from those groups into couples,” Coleman said. “There is less commitment [with hooking up], no responsibility, but they get benefits. Guys especially have said they like this."
Coleman stressed the dangers that come with casual sex, calling the number of teens with STDs an epidemic. Coleman said although more teens and college students take sex lightly, she agrees that as people age this might change.
"I know it can lead to a relationship," she said, noting she knows many couples where, for them, hooking-up developed into a relationship.
How you meet people is up to you, although some may decide to leave it up to fate. Coleman noted some key qualities to a healthy relationship.
"I think in a healthy relationship there are a couple of things to look at: both have to have an equal level of commitment, both have to be ready for that commitment... also a sense of similarity is important, such as world views. Different values are a real problem."
*Check out this post, for a more detailed explanation of online dating from a pick up artist's perspective.
Dating online is so hot for Spring '06
By Tina Taus
You search and search for the elusive "one," yet you keep meeting the same creeps and jerks. Maybe you’re looking in the wrong places. Where do you meet that special someone these days?
For those with little faith in the dating game or too busy to get out and meet people, online dating is the latest trend. Toni Coleman, a relationship coach and psychotherapist specializing in online dating, said the number of people signing up for online dating is huge.
"I don't know very many singles that are younger that don't do it, especially those growing up with it," Coleman said. "With our culture and with people being so busy, for convenience of time and with the cyber-world we live in, [online dating] has become much more common.
"People are getting comfortable with putting their picture out there [on the Internet]."
As a relationship coach, Coleman helps people with their online ads. For example, she advises physicians to place ads in a manner they are comfortable with, considering their patients may use the dating website as well.
Coleman stressed online dating is no more risky than "regular" dating, saying all too often people are abused by those they date off-line. Coleman said websites have safety policies.
"They all have them... there are sites now offering background checks," she continued, adding online dating might be safer than meeting people casually on the street.
Aside from online dating, one common method for students, especially, is to avoid dating, and simply hook up instead. While people interpret the meaning of hooking up differently, it is generally a one-night stand with someone you have known for years, a few days or a few hours.
Coleman said most of the time, 'one-nighters' do not develop into relationships.
"Almost half of the people these days hook up compared to traditional dating," she said, adding 'hook-ups' seem to be common amongst older groups because people are too busy with their careers to find time to date.
"I think dating has gone out of vogue. Kids have gotten into this thing of going off into groups then splitting from those groups into couples,” Coleman said. “There is less commitment [with hooking up], no responsibility, but they get benefits. Guys especially have said they like this."
Coleman stressed the dangers that come with casual sex, calling the number of teens with STDs an epidemic. Coleman said although more teens and college students take sex lightly, she agrees that as people age this might change.
"I know it can lead to a relationship," she said, noting she knows many couples where, for them, hooking-up developed into a relationship.
How you meet people is up to you, although some may decide to leave it up to fate. Coleman noted some key qualities to a healthy relationship.
"I think in a healthy relationship there are a couple of things to look at: both have to have an equal level of commitment, both have to be ready for that commitment... also a sense of similarity is important, such as world views. Different values are a real problem."
*Check out this post, for a more detailed explanation of online dating from a pick up artist's perspective.
Monday, April 3, 2006
More Women Turn To Online Dating!
I just read this article in Cosmopolitan magazine in which it published a "Guide To Online Dating" (for women). Don't ask me what I'm doing reading Cosmopolitan. Bastards =P
The article said some interesting things from a woman's perspective.
"If you think the online dating arena is a bastion of socially inept people who can't master bar-scene trolling, your watch -- Internet dating has actually become cool. "Since the '90s dot-com boom, more people are comfortable on the Web," says Jane Rinzler Buckingham, president of trend-tracking agency Youth Intelligence and a Cosmo contributing editor. "If we use it to find airline tickets and jobs, why not love?" Plus, it's efficient. "You can instantly get the lowdown on dozens of men," says Hannah*, 27, who has used her keyboard to connect with several guys.
Everyone is doing it -- because it works.
Nearly 18 million people visited personals sites in January 2001, according to Internet tracking firm Jupiter Media Metrix. Date.com averages one marriage per week between people who met on its site, and eharmony.com says it has matched more than a million users."
That's insane.
The reason I keep mentioning meeting women online, is because I've found it to be one of the places I meet really emotionally healthy women these days. Successful women tend to be busy and have a life, so online dating seems to be where some turn to, especially if you are in college, such site's like Facebook and Myspace are a goldmine.
As you may realize, a lot of single women read Cosmopolitan Magazine. The magazine took a poll of their female readers on their cyber-dating habits (meeting men online using online dating services). I wanted to pass along the results and I will tell you why after you read the following results:
86% of their online readers has given online dating a try.
41% said they tried it because they were getting frustrated with traditional ways of meeting men.
44% of the women said they would contact a man even it he did not post a picture of himself with his ad.
34% waited three months before meeting their online dates in person.
61% said they found their online dating experience rewarding.
55% think that online dating is a good way to meet men.
74% liked the guys they met online.
36% are in a relationship with someone they met online.
So, what do all these results tell you? You need to get online a meet some single women! This is such an easy way to meet women from the comfort of your home using your computer. This is not a replacement for going out in the field! You have to do that. However, it adds another dimension to your game.
Although I bet most of you that are reading this are Internet savvy. Which means you've probably already tried it with more than likely bad results. Also read this:
"It's ladies' night whenever you log on -- the Web is full of fine guys. MostNow that is a problem...
sites we checked out have a male registration of 65 percent; some even have two
guys for every female. Why? "Men are used to pursuing women, so the Web is just
an extension of that," explains Jeffrey Ullman, founder of the non-Web-based
Greater Relations Worldwide matchmaking service in Los Angeles."
YOU HAVE TO DO SOMETHING TO STICK OUT!
This is why I keep talking about the Meeting Women Online DVD's. They have heaps of little tricks, techniques and step-by-step plans for getting the most bang for your buck, and give you the WAYS to make your profile an instant chick MAGNET!
Check out the video previews for free here, and see if it's what you're looking for.
Donovan
Thursday, March 30, 2006
Quick, Easy Ways To Meet Women Online
Have you tried online dating yet?
The first time I tried it, I felt like I was learning to ride a bike all over again... it was
awkward.
Well, I'm glad I stuck with it, because it turned out that the Internet was one of the most incredible miracles ever created for meeting women.
I've personally met and dated some of the most amazing women... all online. I'm talking about models, dancers... super intelligent women that I would have NEVER met if it were not for the Internet.
What's the point?
The point is if YOU are not using the Internet to meet women on a CONSISTENT basis, then it's time you learned how.
Of course, I don't think you should shut yourself up at home and never go out into the real world again...
It's important that you continue to develop your social skills and grow your ability to create ATTRACTION with women...
But, if you'd like to get three or four more dates a month with women that are MUCH better matches for you, then I'd like to share some of the secrets I've learned about Internet dating with you.
By the way, did you know that if you understand how the dating web sites work... and you know the patterns of how women check their profiles and responses, that you can get double, triple, or even MORE responses?
Yep.
Just by knowing "how the system works", you can literally increase your success by MULTIPLE times.
Here's one for you...
Did you know that many of the big online dating sites will take your profile and put it at the "top of the list" when women do searches... every time you change or UPDATE your profile?
Ever notice that when you first put up a profile, you seem to get more response from women?
Well, that's why.
So guess what?
Now that you know this, you can go and update your profile regularly... with new pictures and other changes... and STAY at the top of the list.
What could that one secret be worth to you? Well, if you're spending as much as the average guy who stays subscribed to an online site for many months, then this one idea alone could be worth hundreds of dollars to you.
Speaking of saving time and money, and getting HUNDREDS of ideas like this one that will DRAMATICALLY improve your success with online dating...
I'd like you to go and watch the video preview clips of my "Meeting Women Online" program.
And I'd like you to read about it and what's inside.
Most important of all, I want to send it to you to TRY out.
In fact, no kidding around here... I'm so convinced that you will use what you learn in this program to get IMMEDIATE results, that I'll send one to you at MY RISK. I'm even going to pay for the shipping to send it to you.
Listen as my guests teach you LIVE how to set up systems that will meet women FOR YOU 24/7... even when you're not near a computer.
Listen as I show you how to create a "machine" that converts profiles and contacts into email addresses...
...email addresses into phone numbers...
...and phone numbers into dates.
I want you to go through the entire program, and try a few of the ideas you're going to learn.
If this program doesn't prove to be worth TEN TIMES the investment, just send it back... no hassles, and no questions.
I wouldn't "push" you to check this program out like this if I wasn't convinced beyond the shadow of any doubt that it's THE WAY to success with online dating.
Those video clips, plus all the details... are all here:
Meeting Women Online
I'll talk to you again soon.
DD.
The first time I tried it, I felt like I was learning to ride a bike all over again... it was
awkward.
Well, I'm glad I stuck with it, because it turned out that the Internet was one of the most incredible miracles ever created for meeting women.
I've personally met and dated some of the most amazing women... all online. I'm talking about models, dancers... super intelligent women that I would have NEVER met if it were not for the Internet.
What's the point?
The point is if YOU are not using the Internet to meet women on a CONSISTENT basis, then it's time you learned how.
Of course, I don't think you should shut yourself up at home and never go out into the real world again...
It's important that you continue to develop your social skills and grow your ability to create ATTRACTION with women...
But, if you'd like to get three or four more dates a month with women that are MUCH better matches for you, then I'd like to share some of the secrets I've learned about Internet dating with you.
By the way, did you know that if you understand how the dating web sites work... and you know the patterns of how women check their profiles and responses, that you can get double, triple, or even MORE responses?
Yep.
Just by knowing "how the system works", you can literally increase your success by MULTIPLE times.
Here's one for you...
Did you know that many of the big online dating sites will take your profile and put it at the "top of the list" when women do searches... every time you change or UPDATE your profile?
Ever notice that when you first put up a profile, you seem to get more response from women?
Well, that's why.
So guess what?
Now that you know this, you can go and update your profile regularly... with new pictures and other changes... and STAY at the top of the list.
What could that one secret be worth to you? Well, if you're spending as much as the average guy who stays subscribed to an online site for many months, then this one idea alone could be worth hundreds of dollars to you.
Speaking of saving time and money, and getting HUNDREDS of ideas like this one that will DRAMATICALLY improve your success with online dating...
I'd like you to go and watch the video preview clips of my "Meeting Women Online" program.
And I'd like you to read about it and what's inside.
Most important of all, I want to send it to you to TRY out.
In fact, no kidding around here... I'm so convinced that you will use what you learn in this program to get IMMEDIATE results, that I'll send one to you at MY RISK. I'm even going to pay for the shipping to send it to you.
Listen as my guests teach you LIVE how to set up systems that will meet women FOR YOU 24/7... even when you're not near a computer.
Listen as I show you how to create a "machine" that converts profiles and contacts into email addresses...
...email addresses into phone numbers...
...and phone numbers into dates.
I want you to go through the entire program, and try a few of the ideas you're going to learn.
If this program doesn't prove to be worth TEN TIMES the investment, just send it back... no hassles, and no questions.
I wouldn't "push" you to check this program out like this if I wasn't convinced beyond the shadow of any doubt that it's THE WAY to success with online dating.
Those video clips, plus all the details... are all here:
Meeting Women Online
I'll talk to you again soon.
DD.
Thursday, March 23, 2006
"Killer Tips" For Meeting Women Online
I managed to rumage through my emails to find this one from David Deangelo. It answers some of the questions from you that I've been getting about the Meeting Women Online program I featured... Enjoy.
I've been getting some VERY interesting feedback and questions about my Meeting Women Online program...
One of the questions that I'm getting a lot is:
"Do you show examples?"
The answer is YES.
In fact, let me tell you about a few of the "special features" that I include in this
program...
First, I had a woman run an online personal ad... and then I had her SAVE ALL THE RESPONSES for the first day or so. You're going to hear ALL of them, with my comments and feedback.
In this program, you're going to see what the "competition" is up to... and you're going to learn BY EXAMPLE what to do... and what NOT to do.
This one section will absolutely change the way you think about online dating... and it will prevent you from making some HUGE mistakes that you probably would have made otherwise.
Next, I took a sample of ads that men were running online, and I TORE THEM APART... live... "no holds barred" style.
Again, you're going to learn some VERY powerful lessons. You're going to see the PATTERNS that women see. You're going to see EXACTLY what other guys are doing wrong in their profiles.
More importantly, you're going to learn, again, BY EXAMPLE, what to do and not do.
Finally, with the help of one of my very talented guest speakers, we did live "personal ad makeovers", including taking NEW PICTURES.
You'll see the difference that a little bit of time and attention can make.
By the way, let me tell you a quick story.
A few days ago, I had lunch with a friend of mine.
As it turns out, this guy works in the "entertainment industry".
Translation: He works with models and actresses.
This guy literally spends all day meeting new, interesting, beautiful women.
And guess where he goes to meet women to date?
You guessed it: ONLINE.
Why? Because he says that it's so much EASIER meeting women on dating and networking sites... because the other guys DON'T GET IT.
I have to agree.
I've personally dated some amazing women that I met online.
I'm talking models, actresses, dancers... and everything in between.
Inside this program, a panel of expert guests and I are going to teach you the secrets to using what might be the world's greatest "Dating Invention"... the internet... to get all the dates you want... without rejection.
As usual, I'd like to send you a copy to try out for a month ON ME. I'll even pay the shipping to send it to you.
If you're not getting more dates starting IMMEDIATELY, just send it back and pay nothing.
I'm so convinced that this program will help you, that I'm willing to give you this "shameless bribe"... just to get you to try it.
Learn more about online dating, and meeting women online.
Your Friend,
David Deangelo
I've been getting some VERY interesting feedback and questions about my Meeting Women Online program...
One of the questions that I'm getting a lot is:
"Do you show examples?"
The answer is YES.
In fact, let me tell you about a few of the "special features" that I include in this
program...
First, I had a woman run an online personal ad... and then I had her SAVE ALL THE RESPONSES for the first day or so. You're going to hear ALL of them, with my comments and feedback.
In this program, you're going to see what the "competition" is up to... and you're going to learn BY EXAMPLE what to do... and what NOT to do.
This one section will absolutely change the way you think about online dating... and it will prevent you from making some HUGE mistakes that you probably would have made otherwise.
Next, I took a sample of ads that men were running online, and I TORE THEM APART... live... "no holds barred" style.
Again, you're going to learn some VERY powerful lessons. You're going to see the PATTERNS that women see. You're going to see EXACTLY what other guys are doing wrong in their profiles.
More importantly, you're going to learn, again, BY EXAMPLE, what to do and not do.
Finally, with the help of one of my very talented guest speakers, we did live "personal ad makeovers", including taking NEW PICTURES.
You'll see the difference that a little bit of time and attention can make.
By the way, let me tell you a quick story.
A few days ago, I had lunch with a friend of mine.
As it turns out, this guy works in the "entertainment industry".
Translation: He works with models and actresses.
This guy literally spends all day meeting new, interesting, beautiful women.
And guess where he goes to meet women to date?
You guessed it: ONLINE.
Why? Because he says that it's so much EASIER meeting women on dating and networking sites... because the other guys DON'T GET IT.
I have to agree.
I've personally dated some amazing women that I met online.
I'm talking models, actresses, dancers... and everything in between.
Inside this program, a panel of expert guests and I are going to teach you the secrets to using what might be the world's greatest "Dating Invention"... the internet... to get all the dates you want... without rejection.
As usual, I'd like to send you a copy to try out for a month ON ME. I'll even pay the shipping to send it to you.
If you're not getting more dates starting IMMEDIATELY, just send it back and pay nothing.
I'm so convinced that this program will help you, that I'm willing to give you this "shameless bribe"... just to get you to try it.
Learn more about online dating, and meeting women online.
Your Friend,
David Deangelo
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
Successful Online Dating With Some Of The Pitfalls!
Oh online dating...
I think I started to explore the dynamic world of online dating back in 2000 or so.
It was a fairly lame encounter, and I got some pretty crappy responses... then again there was a lot to my profile that reeked of AFCness. My photo's weren't like they are now, and my 'knowledge' wasn't at the level it is now.
Skip six years ahead now...
I attend college, and one of the most valuable resources I have for meeting girls is through this medium which is the Internet. It's literal dynamite!
If any of you are college students (probably about 10% of you), then you know the site I'm talking about. (No, not myspace) Although I have met some hot girls via that recently.
On a side note, this HB8.5, 5'10 blonde will be coming up from California soon to see me. That should be a great experience, and I'm actually alittle nervous.
I noticed that most of my dates now come via an online interaction, not because I can't approach women in the field, but simply because of it's sheer convenience. It's like comparing a buffet to random finger picking food. Online you can have some much leverage with so little investment. (Once you know how...)
A month ago, you might have remembered the South African model I dated for a few weeks. We'll... I met her ONLINE. We had ONE friend in common, so I started with a brief opener of "Do you know blah blah at blah high school." Then it started... (Read about "Along came a model..." Link )
One word of warning however...
Some girls are particuarly anal about personal details.
For some reason they can give out their lifelong goals, personal experiences, among other things, but if you ask where they live (eg. general area) they sometimes on occasion get freaked out. Such an occasion last night. (This has only happened ONCE)
I had conversed with this HB7? woman for a week or so, brief messages, and we had TWO friends in common. I asked in passing, "Where about's do you live?" She said, "Don't take offense, but I don't give out personal information." I just said, "Eh, Don't worry." I'll probably never speak to her again.
Having dated numerous women via online using these similar techniques, I found it not offensive, but just lame that she would be that defensive. Defintely a damper on her personality, and conversational skills. (If she would have said, "You'll find out soon enough... where do you live?" That would have been cool) Especially considering we are friends with more than one friend. What made it more of a hit to my ego, is that she wasn't even that hot...
Having said all that, that was just ONCE.
Now for a short plug!
David Deangelo's Meeting Women Online program is the BEST program for this subject. He features special guest speakers like Neil Strauss (Style), among others that are well-known among the community. (who actually expounds on the whole process of the the infamous "Cube" technique) Awesome.
It's on DVD, or AUDIO CD, and has video clips on the website to preview. You can view them here.
My online dating has skyrocketed since viewing the program. It's not just ONLINE, but also gives you a great foundation for alot of other conversation banter, and making yourself more interesting overall.
Check out the pics below.
Speakers include David Deangelo, the other David's, Neil Strauss (Style), Craig, and a tonne of others.
As for me... I'm in love with online dating, it is simply another avenue to meet more women while you are out there in the field picking up.
Why not have lots of options?
Donovan
I think I started to explore the dynamic world of online dating back in 2000 or so.
It was a fairly lame encounter, and I got some pretty crappy responses... then again there was a lot to my profile that reeked of AFCness. My photo's weren't like they are now, and my 'knowledge' wasn't at the level it is now.
Skip six years ahead now...
I attend college, and one of the most valuable resources I have for meeting girls is through this medium which is the Internet. It's literal dynamite!
If any of you are college students (probably about 10% of you), then you know the site I'm talking about. (No, not myspace) Although I have met some hot girls via that recently.
On a side note, this HB8.5, 5'10 blonde will be coming up from California soon to see me. That should be a great experience, and I'm actually alittle nervous.
I noticed that most of my dates now come via an online interaction, not because I can't approach women in the field, but simply because of it's sheer convenience. It's like comparing a buffet to random finger picking food. Online you can have some much leverage with so little investment. (Once you know how...)
A month ago, you might have remembered the South African model I dated for a few weeks. We'll... I met her ONLINE. We had ONE friend in common, so I started with a brief opener of "Do you know blah blah at blah high school." Then it started... (Read about "Along came a model..." Link )
One word of warning however...
Some girls are particuarly anal about personal details.
For some reason they can give out their lifelong goals, personal experiences, among other things, but if you ask where they live (eg. general area) they sometimes on occasion get freaked out. Such an occasion last night. (This has only happened ONCE)
I had conversed with this HB7? woman for a week or so, brief messages, and we had TWO friends in common. I asked in passing, "Where about's do you live?" She said, "Don't take offense, but I don't give out personal information." I just said, "Eh, Don't worry." I'll probably never speak to her again.
Having dated numerous women via online using these similar techniques, I found it not offensive, but just lame that she would be that defensive. Defintely a damper on her personality, and conversational skills. (If she would have said, "You'll find out soon enough... where do you live?" That would have been cool) Especially considering we are friends with more than one friend. What made it more of a hit to my ego, is that she wasn't even that hot...
Having said all that, that was just ONCE.
Now for a short plug!
David Deangelo's Meeting Women Online program is the BEST program for this subject. He features special guest speakers like Neil Strauss (Style), among others that are well-known among the community. (who actually expounds on the whole process of the the infamous "Cube" technique) Awesome.
It's on DVD, or AUDIO CD, and has video clips on the website to preview. You can view them here.
My online dating has skyrocketed since viewing the program. It's not just ONLINE, but also gives you a great foundation for alot of other conversation banter, and making yourself more interesting overall.
Check out the pics below.
Speakers include David Deangelo, the other David's, Neil Strauss (Style), Craig, and a tonne of others.
As for me... I'm in love with online dating, it is simply another avenue to meet more women while you are out there in the field picking up.
Why not have lots of options?
Donovan
Wednesday, February 22, 2006
Meeting Women Online DVD's
I forgot to post a link for you to David Deangelo's Meeting Women Online DVD/CD program.
You can check out video's, testimonals, and inside techniques for making your total online experience dynamite with the ladies. It has like 5 hours of information, all for meeting women online. If you haven't yet made online dating a part of your seduction arsenal, or just starting out, I highly recommend these DVD's.
I meet some of the hottest women I date from online. (South African Model, Actresses, ppl!)
Speakers include David Deangelo, the other David's, Neil Strauss (Style), Craig, and a tonne of others.
Check out the program here.
You can check out video's, testimonals, and inside techniques for making your total online experience dynamite with the ladies. It has like 5 hours of information, all for meeting women online. If you haven't yet made online dating a part of your seduction arsenal, or just starting out, I highly recommend these DVD's.
I meet some of the hottest women I date from online. (South African Model, Actresses, ppl!)
Speakers include David Deangelo, the other David's, Neil Strauss (Style), Craig, and a tonne of others.
Check out the program here.
Monday, January 9, 2006
Why You're Missing Out If You Aren't Meeting Women Online!
I was looking at ways to meet more women, and Internet dating was one of the best ways to do it, quickly, easily and afforably.
David DeAngelo the "dating guru" gives these five reasons and he paints the picture perfectly on why Internet dating is the way to go, or atleast a supplement to your normal dating life (worth considering):
Reason #1: The Web Is A REJECTION FREE Place To Hone Your Skills
If you're looking to hone your skills for meeting and interacting with women in "real life"... the web is the ULTIMATE training ground.
It's literally a "dating simulator" - you can practice your skills with DOZENS of real live women every day, and find out exactly what works and what doesn't - WITHOUT experiencing the painful rejection you'd have to face otherwise.
I can't even begin to tell you how much the web has helped me personally to improve my skills with women... I used to get really shy and nervous when it came time to approach a woman on the street... but interacting with DOZENS and DOZENS of women online built my confidence to the point where it just wasn't an issue... It also didn't hurt that the internet also filled my calendar with dates, which was quite a serious confidence booster in itself. The web was also where I REALLY perfected my Cocky and Funny skills...
With unlimited opportunities to try out new things, it was easy for me to figure out the types of things that make women laugh... and how to building attraction FAST. I'm sure you'll discover the same.
One of the really cool things about interacting with women online is that you can TAKE YOUR TIME when responding to them.
You can carefully plan out what you want to say until you have it exactly right... and you won't have to worry about tripping over yourself because you are nervous or flustered... Because of this simple fact alone I've seen many guys who are too shy to approach women in real life EXCEL on the web... because they don't let themselves get in the way of their success.
The same may hold true for you...
Reason #2: The Web Is The ONLY Place Where Women Approach YOU Constantly
How many times in your life has an attractive woman approached YOU because she was interested in getting to know you? If you're like most guys, you can probably count on one hand. And that's if you're lucky...
But on the web, it's an entirely different story... You'll probably (realistically) received 2 or 3 unsolicited emails PER DAY from women who want to find out more about you.
Some will be from women who aren't your type - and that's ok - because chances are you'll also receive notes from about 2 or 3 women each week that are what you are looking for... and sometimes BETTER.
That rounds out to about 10 a month... and even if you only end up meeting 3 of them in person (a no-brainer considering the skills you'll have, and that they approached YOU first) that's almost one new hot date EACH WEEK... with next to no effort on your part!
Try going to a bar, nightclub or anywhere else and getting the same results. Unless you're tending the bar, it just isn't happening.
Combine that with all of the women you'll meet that you emailed first, and you can see just how wild and exciting this can get...
Reason #3: The Competition Is Weak!
Here's another thing that is VERY interesting - and very good news for us - about the whole online dating world... The competition is PATHETIC.
Guys who normally WOULD be competition for you in "the real world" often consider themselves "too cool" to meet a woman on the web... so they never even try. And those who do try will usually jump on, send out a few emails... and quickly write the whole thing off when they don't get any responses back. They never take the time to figure out what works... because it's easier for them to go back to what they know. Hey, I don't blame them...
So what's left?
A bunch of ASSCLOWNS that can't meet women in real life OR online... and only make YOU look better with their unoriginal - and sometimes even offensive - letters and profiles.
And what does this mean for you?
This means that you have a great shot at those ultra-desirable women that other guys might be able to "out-game" you for in real life. Now YOU will be the one that stands head and shoulders above the rest with an awesome profile and clever communication skills.
Reason #4: The Supply Is UNLIMITED... And You Have The Resources To Take Advantage Of It
As I write this right now there are TENS OF MILLIONS of women on online dating sites... and guess what?
They are ALL single and looking!
Now in real life this would be useless - even if you were tossed into a stadium full of models, you could realistically only talk to 20 or 30 of them in a night...
But on the web, things are different.
You can easily talk to DOZENS of these women at a time.
Once you get your "system" down, you can "scale up" and join other dating sites... and multiply your opportunities each time you do.
You're not limited to those you see out on the town or those you meet through your circle of friends... you can meet women from all over your state, country, or even the world. You'll never again worry about being lonely while traveling... simply search for ladies in the city you want to meet and line up some dates while you are there. And if you're as good as some of my friends that you'll hear from... a ride to your hotel from the airport!
My friends aren't kidding when they say they have to take their profiles DOWN every once in awhile to "stop the flow".
If you want to meet a lot of women FAST... or date several women at once... this is the way to do it.
If you do date fairly regularly, but have a "dry spell" every once in awhile... the women you meet online will "fill in the blanks"... you won't have to worry about being dateless ever again.
As I mentioned before... if you're new to the whole dating scene, this is the best place to start. You'll hone your skills WHILE you are getting dates... instead of while you are just trying.
Isn't that the way it SHOULD be?
Reason #5: You Can Meet High Quality Women You Simply CANNOT Meet Anywhere Else
It's simple fact: I know more men who have met "keepers" on the web than any other one single place... myself included. If you've spent any time at all going out and meeting women, then you know that a woman of quality is a rare thing indeed. Many of the intelligent, attractive women who have it together are over the bar scene... and your chances of meeting a woman like that through your circle of friends is slim.
Sure... you might bump into someone you like at a coffee shop or grocery store... but why leave it up to chance? If you are serious about finding a high quality woman to have a great relationship with, the web is the best place to start.
In general, the women you meet online AREN'T superficial, don't play "head games"...and most importantly... are LOOKING to meet a quality man like you. And if you think you can't meet a woman who is attractive online, you had best think again...
I've met models, actresses, and dancers online... and of course, many beautiful "regular" women as well. So have my friends (I've seen them). And so will you.
So let's do the math:
An unlimited supply... of high quality women... with ZERO competition... that approach YOU?
Hmm.
It's easy to see why online dating is the best thing going... for a select few of us that is.
David Deangelo has just released a Meeting Women Online Program. It's gold, and it has special guests like the David's, Neil Strauss aka Style, and alot more guest speakers spilling their secret techniques for generating a massive flood of women.
Catch the wave, and get with the times bro!
Donovan
David DeAngelo the "dating guru" gives these five reasons and he paints the picture perfectly on why Internet dating is the way to go, or atleast a supplement to your normal dating life (worth considering):
Reason #1: The Web Is A REJECTION FREE Place To Hone Your Skills
If you're looking to hone your skills for meeting and interacting with women in "real life"... the web is the ULTIMATE training ground.
It's literally a "dating simulator" - you can practice your skills with DOZENS of real live women every day, and find out exactly what works and what doesn't - WITHOUT experiencing the painful rejection you'd have to face otherwise.
I can't even begin to tell you how much the web has helped me personally to improve my skills with women... I used to get really shy and nervous when it came time to approach a woman on the street... but interacting with DOZENS and DOZENS of women online built my confidence to the point where it just wasn't an issue... It also didn't hurt that the internet also filled my calendar with dates, which was quite a serious confidence booster in itself. The web was also where I REALLY perfected my Cocky and Funny skills...
With unlimited opportunities to try out new things, it was easy for me to figure out the types of things that make women laugh... and how to building attraction FAST. I'm sure you'll discover the same.
One of the really cool things about interacting with women online is that you can TAKE YOUR TIME when responding to them.
You can carefully plan out what you want to say until you have it exactly right... and you won't have to worry about tripping over yourself because you are nervous or flustered... Because of this simple fact alone I've seen many guys who are too shy to approach women in real life EXCEL on the web... because they don't let themselves get in the way of their success.
The same may hold true for you...
Reason #2: The Web Is The ONLY Place Where Women Approach YOU Constantly
How many times in your life has an attractive woman approached YOU because she was interested in getting to know you? If you're like most guys, you can probably count on one hand. And that's if you're lucky...
But on the web, it's an entirely different story... You'll probably (realistically) received 2 or 3 unsolicited emails PER DAY from women who want to find out more about you.
Some will be from women who aren't your type - and that's ok - because chances are you'll also receive notes from about 2 or 3 women each week that are what you are looking for... and sometimes BETTER.
That rounds out to about 10 a month... and even if you only end up meeting 3 of them in person (a no-brainer considering the skills you'll have, and that they approached YOU first) that's almost one new hot date EACH WEEK... with next to no effort on your part!
Try going to a bar, nightclub or anywhere else and getting the same results. Unless you're tending the bar, it just isn't happening.
Combine that with all of the women you'll meet that you emailed first, and you can see just how wild and exciting this can get...
Reason #3: The Competition Is Weak!
Here's another thing that is VERY interesting - and very good news for us - about the whole online dating world... The competition is PATHETIC.
Guys who normally WOULD be competition for you in "the real world" often consider themselves "too cool" to meet a woman on the web... so they never even try. And those who do try will usually jump on, send out a few emails... and quickly write the whole thing off when they don't get any responses back. They never take the time to figure out what works... because it's easier for them to go back to what they know. Hey, I don't blame them...
So what's left?
A bunch of ASSCLOWNS that can't meet women in real life OR online... and only make YOU look better with their unoriginal - and sometimes even offensive - letters and profiles.
And what does this mean for you?
This means that you have a great shot at those ultra-desirable women that other guys might be able to "out-game" you for in real life. Now YOU will be the one that stands head and shoulders above the rest with an awesome profile and clever communication skills.
Reason #4: The Supply Is UNLIMITED... And You Have The Resources To Take Advantage Of It
As I write this right now there are TENS OF MILLIONS of women on online dating sites... and guess what?
They are ALL single and looking!
Now in real life this would be useless - even if you were tossed into a stadium full of models, you could realistically only talk to 20 or 30 of them in a night...
But on the web, things are different.
You can easily talk to DOZENS of these women at a time.
Once you get your "system" down, you can "scale up" and join other dating sites... and multiply your opportunities each time you do.
You're not limited to those you see out on the town or those you meet through your circle of friends... you can meet women from all over your state, country, or even the world. You'll never again worry about being lonely while traveling... simply search for ladies in the city you want to meet and line up some dates while you are there. And if you're as good as some of my friends that you'll hear from... a ride to your hotel from the airport!
My friends aren't kidding when they say they have to take their profiles DOWN every once in awhile to "stop the flow".
If you want to meet a lot of women FAST... or date several women at once... this is the way to do it.
If you do date fairly regularly, but have a "dry spell" every once in awhile... the women you meet online will "fill in the blanks"... you won't have to worry about being dateless ever again.
As I mentioned before... if you're new to the whole dating scene, this is the best place to start. You'll hone your skills WHILE you are getting dates... instead of while you are just trying.
Isn't that the way it SHOULD be?
Reason #5: You Can Meet High Quality Women You Simply CANNOT Meet Anywhere Else
It's simple fact: I know more men who have met "keepers" on the web than any other one single place... myself included. If you've spent any time at all going out and meeting women, then you know that a woman of quality is a rare thing indeed. Many of the intelligent, attractive women who have it together are over the bar scene... and your chances of meeting a woman like that through your circle of friends is slim.
Sure... you might bump into someone you like at a coffee shop or grocery store... but why leave it up to chance? If you are serious about finding a high quality woman to have a great relationship with, the web is the best place to start.
In general, the women you meet online AREN'T superficial, don't play "head games"...and most importantly... are LOOKING to meet a quality man like you. And if you think you can't meet a woman who is attractive online, you had best think again...
I've met models, actresses, and dancers online... and of course, many beautiful "regular" women as well. So have my friends (I've seen them). And so will you.
So let's do the math:
An unlimited supply... of high quality women... with ZERO competition... that approach YOU?
Hmm.
It's easy to see why online dating is the best thing going... for a select few of us that is.
David Deangelo has just released a Meeting Women Online Program. It's gold, and it has special guests like the David's, Neil Strauss aka Style, and alot more guest speakers spilling their secret techniques for generating a massive flood of women.
Catch the wave, and get with the times bro!
Donovan
Sunday, January 8, 2006
Does Online Dating Work?
To online date or not... that IS the question.
But it shouldn't be.
The other night, I hooked up with a "actress" after knowning her for 2 hours. I got her number after about say, 10 minutes of conversation.
Think I'm kidding? Well, I'm really not. It's been awesome lately, girls are flocking to the Internet to meet the "nice guys". They see it as a way to get to know guys first, without the stress of the date.
So basically, you get the girl with the hassle.
Plus read this commentary by pickup guru David Deangelo discussing why the online world is the way to go (as a supplement to the REAL world):
Be sure, I'll be posting alot more on finding and dating women orginally from an online source. eg. Match.com or whatever.
But it shouldn't be.
The other night, I hooked up with a "actress" after knowning her for 2 hours. I got her number after about say, 10 minutes of conversation.
Think I'm kidding? Well, I'm really not. It's been awesome lately, girls are flocking to the Internet to meet the "nice guys". They see it as a way to get to know guys first, without the stress of the date.
So basically, you get the girl with the hassle.
Plus read this commentary by pickup guru David Deangelo discussing why the online world is the way to go (as a supplement to the REAL world):
One thing you have to remember about chat rooms and online IM sessions is that they're great PRACTICE.
Now, I've met some UNBELIEVABLE women on the internet... so don't get me wrong here.
But don't worry too much about any particular girl... or any particular situation.
She could have had a boyfriend, or even a husband... and was just online because she was bored... or any of 100 other scenarios.
When something like this happens, just move on.
The point is that you're using the Internet for a GREAT "practice environment", and you're training your mind to be Cocky & Funny in the moment... which begins to translate into the REAL world as you do it.
To answer your question about how to get a girl to give you her email address and/or number, just do more of what you're already doing...
Keep throwing down the challenges...
Write back and say "Yea, you're probably not that adventurous".
She'll say "Yes I am!".
Then say "Well, if you were then you would have asked me for my number and called me already. But you're not. So you didn't...".
Keep this up until she asks for YOUR number.
Then, as soon as you hit the "send" button, IMher again quickly to say "I don't hear my phone ringing! Hurry up!".
You'll love the results you get from this kind of thing.
But be careful. And get LOTS of CURRENT pictures. Take it from someone who knows... lol... don't just take her word for it.
Be sure, I'll be posting alot more on finding and dating women orginally from an online source. eg. Match.com or whatever.
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